Monday, January 20, 2014

New Years in Izmir, Dalyan, and Turkish Bath...

We had quite the flight from Boston. In a last minute effort to be frugal, Joseph visited West Marine to buy the paints we needed to paint the boat. It turns out that the best paints for painting boats are made in the US and buying them in the US would save us a lot of money !!...(Helen your thoughts) So off we went. Two trips later and a visit to a hardware store we had all we needed. We divided the paints between two bags and off we headed to the airport. Helen and Butch gave us a ride and it was a teary goodbye. We checked in, and finally boarded our flight.
We were tired .. a busy few days in the US had kept us on our toes and now we were heading back to Turkey to meet Josephs parents, Siobhan and Frank for New Years in Izmir.
Just before they closed door to the plane a lady approached us, "Miss Kranz" ... "yes", I said ... "we found some hazards materials in your bag and it has been removed". Now the guys in the seat next to us was a little shocked ... I guess everyone is worried about what everyone else has in their bags. On hearing that a bag was pulled, Joseph asked all innocent ... "what was found " ... as if he didn't know... The lady said it was paint, and that we could collect it when we liked. She said only one bag was effected.
She left, the door was closed and we were off. First to Munich and then to Izmir.
Frank and Siobhan left Ireland and would arrive some 10 hours before us. We arrived in Munich and without much of a delay, we were off again to Izmir. The flight was non eventful.
As we waited to disembark the plane, we watch through the plane window and saw our bags, along with all the other bags be hand lifted off the plane. It was our turn finally to get off the plane. We went through passport control and then on to baggage claim.
Then one by one our bags appeared. All but one bag came out on the carousel. At this point, we knew the bag that was missing was the other bag that contained paints. This first bag was empty of paint !!! Were we to be out of luck? After much attempts to explain to the baggage claim people where we were staying(language barrier...where is Anne's Rosetta Stone), we headed to met Siobhan and Frank at our hotel.
On arriving at the hotel we were greeted by Frank. He looked well, and was excited to see us. And us to see him. Siobhan arrived on the scene shortly there after. The plan was to have dinner in Izmir for New Years and then go to see the fireworks.
Dinner was fish. We ate along the water front. The location was beautiful even if it was night time. The place was alive with people coming into the city for the big night and all the festivities. What a perfect start to the night great food and great company!
 As we sat eating dinner a homeless man passed behind Joseph's chair and put a new born baby rabbit on his shoulder... any thing can happen here...and this while surprising, is part of the experience of living in Turkey! After the initial shock wore off I picked the little fella up for a great photo opportunity :)
Dinner finished and we were on our way, down the esplanade to see what the night had to offer for fun and entertainment. The turks are creative people. They don't need to import a whole load of stuff, they make do with what they have, or can make. The Turkish flag made with a string of light is a good example of just what they can do.
Joseph and Frank enjoying a fresh fruit drink. Fruit is widely available and the Turkish made good use of it, by turning it into a fresh drink... we love them.
Next day, the 1st of January, we spent shopping and eating. It's not hard to do either here. Izmir is a big city with everything a big city has to offer. The shopping was great and we all enjoyed the bargaining in the market. The Next day, we hoped on the bus and were off to Marmaris. Once in Marmaris we headed to Ramis for dinner where Orkun and his brother, Okan, joined us as we finished up. Siobhan took the opportunity to ask all the questions we all wanted to know about Turkey, Muslims and their beliefs. She was particularly interested in the number of wives a man might have :)

In the morning, we were all a little tired. Joseph wanted to see the baby so we headed out to the boat yard to see Zim. At this point we were all sick, except Siobhan. A virus was wide spread in Turkey over the Christmas period and now it was our turn to have it. This wasn't going to stop Joseph or for that matter Frank who was worst hit, from seeing the boat. Orkun was at the yard. Above is a picture of him greeting Siobhan.
Joseph and I had heard about Tombs near Dalyan and so the next day we decided this could be a good day out. Everyone was feeling a little better and we were all up for the 1 hour trip.
Below is the picture from were we had lunch. It's not busy at this time of the year at any of the tourist spots so you get very special treatment, this includes lunch which was specially make for us.

The weather was beautiful, maybe a little cold but none the less beautiful. We were not alone, two or three other small groups joined us at the restaurant. Hundreds of people flock to the town every day during the summer to not only to see the tombs but also the wild life which includes turtles !!!
We rested for a day or so, but eventually decided it was time to do something after being stuck inside with coughs gone wild. Helen while on skype  suggested a Turkish bath might help, if nothing else it would be a break from the being inside and relaxing :) Thanks to Amid, another friend here in Marmaris, a trip to a local bath was organized. Most baths are closed but I think this one fired up specially for us. Frank, Siobhan, Joseph and myself donned swim suits and entered the door below to enjoy the steam.
Inside was completely tiled from floor to ceiling. A raised platform stood in the middle of the floor as shown to the left and a bench ringed the room. The platform known as a haman was heated and very enjoyable to lie on. Next the masseuse arrived and began the the treatment. Only Siobhan and I decided to have the message. Frank was a little afraid of this service after his visit to a masseuse in Kuala Lumpur.
The two boys relaxing in the hall ways on the way out of the bath.

Engagement party...

As many of our readers know Joseph and I got engaged in October of 2013. We were more then surprised when Helen and Butch told us they were going to have an engagement party for us. It was perfect timing because we got a chance to visit with friends and family that may not have made it to Christmas. The party was a blast!!! Joseph and I feel very blessed to have so many caring and generous people in our lives! A special thank you to Steve and Abby for all of your help with the late night clean up! Thank you very much mom and dad for all of your love and support!!! xoxo
Please see more photos on Facebook...I was too busy socializing!
A puzzle mom had made of us! very sweet

Christmas Eve and Christmas Day...U.S.!!!


We had a wonderful week prior to Christmas Eve...lots of preparing and visiting! This year we spent Christmas Eve at Steve and Kate's in Hamilton MA. We all went to church together as a family and then went back to their house to celebrate some December birthdays! Kate's birthday which is December 22nd and Joseph's birthday which is December 26th...We had a great night together as a family and the kids Finian, Conor, Maggie and Louise were so excited for Santa to come! (Me too, as can be seen by the photo)



The "adults" in the house were enjoying a glass of wine, and the two birthday kids were happy to pose for this picture. Butch was caught off guard... eyes closed.
Thanks Kate and Steve for a great time and great food... Just in case anyone needs a pulled pork recipe, Steve has one down :)
     
The kids headed to bed and we (Helen, Butch , Joseph and I) headed to some old family friends, the McNamara's for our annual visit. This was a great evening and we enjoyed homemade lemon cello and Irish Baily's cream. The party went into the small hours of the morning, lucky we had a quite morning planned :) Thanks again to Lissy and Brian for a great evening.
 
The following morning we opened presents, had breakfast and did as planned... relaxed! The afternoon was to be spent in Waltham, so we took all the relaxing we could fit in.
What follows doesn't need an explanation but to say, as always we had a great evening with all our friends and family. All the people we hadn't seen in a while and especially the people we hadn't seen since the same time last year.

Joseph, Wendy, Anne, Jeb and Poppy(Mary... Joseph wore that hat all day long!)
Helen, Mag's and Wendy (see what a capri sun and do)

The cousins are my most favorite part of Christmas! I once read a saying that said, "Cousins are childhood playmates who grow up to be your forever friends"!!!
 
We had a very Merry Christmas!!! Feeling very blessed for all our friends and family around the world...Cheers!!!

Weekend before Christmas!!!

We returned home from Turkey on a cold December 18th. I was so excited to be home with friends and family to celebrate Christmas! Dad and mom picked us up from the airport; it was great to see them. The following day we did not do much because we were exhausted. We were so lucky to have a private viewing of the Beauparlant twins Emma and Logan. THEY ARE ADORABLE and Abby and Brian are a wonderful example of loving and devoted parents.

    
Emma Kathleen and Logan David

Now, because we were in town before Christmas we had lots of running around to do as well as visiting. Our next visit was with the Jacobi family! We had planned on celebrating lil Wendy’s birthday with a special trip into Boston. We headed out to Sudbury on Saturday afternoon to pick up the kids. We were thrilled to see them. It had been four months since I had seen them last. The kids came running out the door when they saw my truck pull up…we all had some tears of joy! The house was all a buzz with Christmas and it was so nice to be back there. We had a nice lunch with Gigi and Poppy and Jen R. was there too. Jeb and Wendy were so excited to show us all of the activities they have been doing. We all exchanged gifts and had a wonderful visit before the kids headed to town with us.

We arrived at the Sheraton at about 6pm. We checked in and got cleaned up to go meet one of our bestest friends ever Alison O’laughlin!!!  She fortunately had very thoughtful gifts of noise machines for Jeb and Wendy. The kids we thrilled and we all headed in to have dinner. The very special reason for dinner out and a night at the Sheraton was for Wendy’s birthday so naturally we all sang Happy Birthday to her!
We really enjoyed our time with Alison and I still begin to chuckle when I think of how much fun we all had.
 The following morning we went for a long swim before brunch. Jeb and Wendy are natural swimmers and love the water. After swimming and brunch we headed to the Frog Pond in Boston Common for some ice-skating. On our way into the common we ran into the man of the season Santa with Mrs. Claus and one of the head elves. They were heading to a local charity to visit with the kids. We were very lucky to run into him, he had candy canes for everyone! It was the first time for all of us to go skating on the pond. It was fairly warm and a bit drizzly at first.
Wendy and Jeb are naturals at ice-skating but Joseph and myself were a bit nervous about falling so we took it slow.  We spent about 2 hours on the ice. Lucky for us that Dietz and Watson were doing a promotional day at the pond with hot mini sandwiches and free cocoa. We took full advantage of the free treats and I assured them that I would no longer buy Boars head brand meat, which we all know (Emily) is the best meat ever! The kids had their faces painted…we all had a blast!
 




 
 The free hot cocoa was yummy!





Lots of energy was expelled and we headed up to Helen and Butch’s house for another sleepover!
Wendy cuddling with Logan at our sleepover party...Wendy is a natural babysitter!



 

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Turkey...three weeks deep! - Lost but also found

One of the things that makes Turkey different is the number of ATM’s… you rarely see one on it’s own. The picture shows eight ATM’s along one wall and 7 more along another. I’m told in summer there are queues of people lining up to use them, but right now it’s quite… we hear that a lot…
The following day we were invited to a barbeque. We drove with Orkin out into the country side to a friends restaurant. It was a cold night and the locals say it’s never this cold so they don’t have heat to heat the houses and apartments. This was no exception… Even while we were inside we had to ware gloves and hats. As the evening moved along, we got a visit from the local MP police called the Jandarma. These guys act as local police when there are no local police in the area. They deal with all the issue that local police deal with,, and more.. They turned out to be really nice guys and stayed for dinner. They even taught us to play back gammon. We had a great night. So much fun!
The original reason to go was to get a Christmas tree !!! It’s not like the US, you don’t see Christmas tree’s on the side of the road for sale. Turkey decided to make it illegal to cut down certain types of tree’s, oil trees and pine trees being two on the list. Just to be clear, you can own the land, you can plant the tree, but you can’t cut it down !!! With special permission and a large bribe you can make it happen… we were looking for the other option but the local Jandarma police were not going to allow this! So the plan was put on hold.

The next day if was off to the boat again. We are sanding the bottom to allow it to dry out over the winter. Joseph hired two local guys to help him, they are making good progress. Just as a reference, the wages in winter are 1000 TL for a month. This is 6 days a week 8 to 9 hours a day.  We pay 300 TL’s  a week, or $150, or this works out at a little over $2.5 an hour.The labor here is cheap. We are sure to feed them a nice lunch as well as Anne brings them Cokes and candy bars in the afternoon.
We headed to Kipa again for fish… and once again Joseph cooked it up. As a side note oranges are almost free in Marmaris. They grow everywhere…. People sell them out of the back of their cars for pennies!
 Other local fruits are sold at really discounted prices, as the Irish say "it is it good value for money?" At Kipa we saw the solution to the Christmas tree. Although they have fake trees they also had fresh trees in pots, still growing, this gets around the issue of cutting down a tree.  $25 buys you a fresh tree.

Some people have been asking what does the boat look like out of the water. Well WENDY and JEB...this photo is for you!!! Zim stands in a cradle and for extra security, the Turkey boat yard adds wooden poles to help stop it from moving in high winds… they have a good record of not loosing too many boats. (Anne gets nervous about this)

The other big question has been about our apartment. We got quite a good deal on the place, two bedrooms, a living room, a bathroom, and kitchen. All for less than $200 a month !!! We get  free water but have to pay for electricity…. Which can be expensive since all the heating is electric.











Living room ...

In the final days before we leave for the US for Christmas Joseph went for his first Turkish shave. Again Orkin (or as we like to call him Orkin-man as a way to remember the pronunciation) came to the rescue, he brought us to the right place. The guy spoke a little English and did a great job, even if I had to give a little direction, so I got the desired out come. I think Joseph will go back, he really liked the experience. In the morning we were off to Germany, and then to the US …

The morning started early, the bus left at 8am and we had bought our tickets the night before. We were really proud of ourselves as we had managed to get the price of the bus for the listed price. Believe it or not everything is about bargaining. Now when you go to a market, you expect to have to bargain, Turkey is famous for this. But when you go to a bus station and the guys tells you the normal price is 42 TL’s but for you he can do a special price of 39 TL’s you know you are getting had !!! We had been armed with the price from the internet… and knew what we wanted to pay 31 TL’s which is $15 and not a penny more. Later that evening after a visit to the ring store to collect my engagement ring, we collected the tickets for the bus ride from a different bus store, this guy didn’t even try to bargain, he came out with the 31 TL’s price all on his own… Finally we felt like we were starting to fit in.
We boarded the bus and headed off to Izmir some 4 hours away. Now to be honest we couldn’t understand why the car ride only took 2.5 hours and the bus was so much slower. But soon enough it became very obvious, they drive really slowly. The only good thing about the journey was that they made us tea and sandwiches on route. We arrived a head of schedule and then took another bus to the airport. With plenty of time to spare we boarded the flight to Germany to spend the evening with Josephs cousin Rosemary and her lovely family, Christian, Mia and Dominic. 
On landing in Germany, for the first time in weeks, it really felt like Christmas. Christmas trees everywhere and Christmas music, something we had almost never heard in Turkey was playing freely… The season had begun for us. The following day we board the second stage of the flight to Boston and now as I write the remainder of this blog I am sitting on the plane with 4 hours to go… see you all soon...can't wait to be home for Christmas!!!

 
Orkin and Joseph enjoying a hot coffee
Leather jacket testing ... hahahahaha
 Orkin 
Izmir from up top :)